Brother NWO
Very nice advices given by all brothers, Looks we all are effected to lesser or more extent.Would rearrange and try to add some more.
Balance, sacrifice and patience are always more advisable try to get the same through prayers and Quran and exhibit same in your life.
Take charge rearrange your relations or take decisions. Must have already heard that divorce is not favorable action but not forbidden.Hazrat Ibrahim PBHH had asked/massaged his son Hazrat Ismail PBUH to leave/divorce his first wife because she was not contended with him.
You have to gauge yourself and the situation very well and accurately, every rearrangement/decision you make today has to be owned by only yourself after 20 years.
Try less dependence on others, establish yourself, and take some time out (sometimes getting away (from all) for a while makes others realize that you are also important). Make some sincere friends and must do some physical routine.
To me real mother is the most respectful and sacrifiseable relation in the world. Anyway situations vary everywhere.
Please do not mind anything which you did not like or doesn’t describe the situation well.
Also usually try to remain away from women affairs/their talks/manipulations etc.
Regards usman rawalpindi
SIC replied on Tuesday, September 15, 2009 02:17 AM
Dear NWO
One aspect has been overlooked by all my respected brothers, with due apology I just dare to ask to please try to 'satisfy your partner' as non compliance also leads to such type of problems. Please donot mind, just survey among your friends, you will be astonished to note that in 95 % cases this is THE basic reason for such type of disputes between husband & wife. |
