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Rizvi

Wednesday, October 24, 2012 09:51 AM

!!!Sorry for non property discussion!!!!
AOA.
I need some advice regarding good doctor (Preferably Pakistani) in Riyadh.
My wife is suffering from severe body aches, weakness and most of the time exhausting feeling.
All the Lab reports are normal.
I am getting fed up from the Hospitals (so called WORLD CLASS).
Looking after for some kind information,
Jazak Allah

zakir replied on Wednesday, October 24, 2012 02:52 PM

Sir plz one time check her to psychiatrist also. Bcoz sometimes depression gives also the same kind of symptoms.

Aman replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 04:10 AM

AOA
Dear Rizvi
Not sure the exact illness and condition of your wife but faced the similar situation with my wife and took her to Sulaiman Habib Olaya and have her checked by Dr. Margret (American) in neurology department. As i said I am just recommending based on little info from email. Rgds

DR.MUHAMMAD AYUB KHAN replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 04:10 AM

Yes, Mr.Zakir is right. There is no harm in consulting a psychiatrist. Unfortunately, in our society it has remained a taboo to consult a psychiatrist. Depression is a very common medical problem which affects the social life of patient as well as that of family. Depression is caused by an imbalance of brain chemicals (neurotransmitters). Most of the time there is no obvious cause for depression. Timely treatment of depression results in full recovery but treatment should NEVER be stopped without the advice of doctor, otherwise chances of relapse will be high.

aliakee replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 04:14 AM

brother she is depressed,she need to eat good food daily and improve her health.you cannot do anything until you satisfied her mind that dont worry.best way is keep trust on Allah and remmber him as much as possible.

spend time and talk good in front of her that inshallah future is goood.

brother balance diet is necessary,may be she is not getting sufficent amount of diet.

there are lots of good doctors, but she need following.

1 Allah ko yaad karo zayda say zayda
2 achi diet like fruties,egg ,fish aur salad
3 exercise especially in morning
4 doctor(in case of emergency) uper waley 3 points karo inshallah un ke sahe achi ho jaey gaye. you can give her piles, jins say taqet ati hai ,multi viamins

Allah sab ko sahet da ameen ya rabul alameen.

SAAD replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 04:26 AM

Dear sir, the treatment for such a patient is very simple, but it needs "STRONG DETERMINATION".(Try for 45 Days & see the difference, Insha Allah)
* 20 - 40 minutes walk in a lush green park preferably after Fajar Prayer.
* Simple diet & preferably vegetables and that's too when your stomach actually demands for food. Meat should be minimized.
* If at all feeling weakness during initial days, take some light diet or just a little fruit.

Visitor replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 04:34 AM

While you consider other advices, there is another very important aspect that you must not ignore.

Please do not take my advice in a wrong way. You both must have some very fulfilling time together at least twice a week (more or less depending on your and her age). You know what that means. It will refresh her physically as well as emotionally. That aspect when ignored usually causes the kind of symptoms that you have mentioned. BTW, men can also develope similar symptoms in similar conditions. IF it does not work after trying for a couple of months, then see some psychiatrist for thorough counseling to find out the cause of depression. Please avoid the medicines for depression as much as possible as most have very serious side effects. It may however be simple and prove to be very useful (usually without harmless side effects) to use daily vitamins as supplement just in case she is not on a balanced diet, although any major deficiency should have appeared in medical reports.

P.S. Those WORLD CLASS hospitals cannot do much if her tests are OK. Do you expect them to give her unnecessary treatment or medicines?

psycho replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 05:07 AM

i agree to the above posts,problem may lie in their relationship she may be seeking attention of her partner,marriages crumble due to husband's indifferent attitude towards emotional satisfaction of their wives,men and women are made different by nature,men use them for their physical satisfaction and think its enough,in reality it leaves them more unsatisfied.women long for admiration,companionship and friendship.unfortunately men in our society act like bosses not friends.

visitor replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 05:47 AM

you can try to send her pakistan,her mother or family person where she feel free for two three months,than you will find some change better inshalah,my cousin was also facing this problem after three month when she came back there was good change,actully in in foreign we have every facility but conditions are very tough and tense,so if no problem arrange a visit to get sattisfaction.

zakir replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 06:38 AM

If she is a household woman then it is a common problem in Saudi Arabia.Husband is always busy and woman is alone at home.If she is educated better for her to start any job or tuition at home .She also can join some yoga or baking classes.The main purpose is to make her busy.If she is already a working lady then try to evaluate the cause of depression and by checking her to any Psychiatrist easily u can find the solution of this problem.

Rizvi replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 09:05 AM

Thanks to every one for their kind advices
Jazak Allah

Kamran replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 09:47 AM

Dear Rizvi, this is a mental problem. My wife has also faced such problem. Now Allhamdulillah she is ok but still taking medicines from about one year. Every test, report etc was ok. I will advise you to visit any Psycatrist ( a physacalogist who use medicines, a doctor ).

ASIM replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 10:48 AM

DEAR BRO RIZVI PPL SUFFER THIS KIND OF PROBLEM WHEN THEY DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM IN THERE LIFE ,WELL I BELIEVE ONE NEED TO HAVE VISION AND PURPOSE OF LIFE ,USUALLY PPL HAVE LOT TO DO IN THERE LIFE ,AND I BELIEVE ALLAH MADE EVERY1 FOR A PURPOSE ,AND WE NEED TO FOCUS ON THAT PURPOSE OUR HOLLY PROPHET SPEND ALL OF HIS LIFE EDUCATING PPL AND SHOWING THEM THE RIGHT PATH ,NOW THINK ABT THE PEOPLE AROUND U MOSTLY PPL R SUFFERING AND R NEEDY ONE , KABEE KISI MAZDOOR KO DACHIN K SARA DIN KAM KAR KAR K PAGAL HO JATA HA AUR RAAT KO MEETHEE NEEND SOOTA HA ,WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH ,TOUGH GET GOING ,AND WHEN THE GOING GETS EASY ,EASY GET STUCK

hassan khilji replied on Thursday, October 25, 2012 06:10 PM

dear rizvi sahib plz start fish oil capsule 2 capsule in morning 2 after lunch nd 2 after dinner for 15 days after that 2 in morning after breakfast and 2 after dinner

Rehem Malik replied on Sunday, October 28, 2012 06:10 AM

Mr Hassan Khilji,

Don’t you think you have precribed over dose. One Capsule a day is more then sufficient. Your suggestion you shold to be taken seriously since this can damage someone health. Excess Omega 3 can damange your liver badly.

shahid replied on Thursday, November 1, 2012 03:37 AM

sometimes when the cause is not clear usually it is the deficiency of Vitamin D especially in Riyadh where houses are enclosed and women do not get enough sun. Have her Vit.D tested. One of my friend spend an year getting treatments for aches with no recovery ; finally the Vit.D deficiency was diagnosed . Once treated he recovered fully.

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